Do You Do Child Care for Love or Money?

For most family child care providers the answer is “Both! ”Family child care providers love children. It’s their number one motivating factor. But, earning money is also important.

Unfortunately, in our society we undervalue the work of providers. Federal and state governments drastically under fund the child care system. Many parents can’t afford the true cost of child care. As a result, providers are often forced to subsidize the system with low wages.

Yet, some parents assume providers should be happy to do their work without regard for money.

This comes up when a parent complains about paying a late pickup fee, leaves without giving a two-week notice, or objects to a provider enforcing her contract or policies. If a provider tries to enforce her rules, the parent sometimes acts offended, and might say, “You’re just in it for the money.”

This attitude is an attempt to shame providers into not enforcing their rules. But, it’s also a reflection of how society views caregivers of young children as less worthy citizens. It’s like saying, “You don’t deserve to be paid for your work.”

It’s also a statement about the undervaluing of work primarily done by women.

So, you can love children and make money caring for children. Don't be ashamed about wanting to do both.

Tom Copeland – www.tomcopelandblog.com

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