When a Child Steals from You
When a child steals from a family child care provider, it’s probably not something that most providers anticipate. But it does happen:
* A child care provider suspects that a ten year old child stole a valuable necklace. The child denies it and the mother supports the child.
* A child steals a “special toy” of the daughter of the child care provider. Before it can be recovered, the child gives it away to someone else as a gift. The child had a history of stealing and the provider terminated the family.
* A child asks if he can have a video game that belongs to the child care provider’s son. The provider says “no”, but later the game is missing. When contacted by the provider, the parents say their child told them that the provider had given it to him. The parents also say that this is the third provider their child had stolen from.
* Two brothers are allowed to play in the child care provider's computer room/office to watch TV. After they left, the provider found her jewelry box dumped on the floor, and her wedding ring and high school class ring missing. She recovered the high school ring, but the wedding rings were thrown away by the boys, afraid they would get caught.
* A boy stole music CDs from the child care provider. The provider’s husband made a list of the 18 missing CDs and went to the parent's home. He told the parents that he would file a police report unless they were returned. All but 3 were returned within 30 minutes.
What can you do in these situations?
You should keep any valuable personal items locked or hidden away, or in rooms that are off limits to the children.
You can put in your policies that parents are responsible to pay for broken or stolen property.
If the stolen item was used in your business, you can deduct the cost of replacing it. If the item stolen was personal, you cannot deduct the cost to replace it.
If you not sure of who stole from you, and the parents are not cooperative, you can file a police report and let them investigate.
What about insurance?
A provider’s business liability insurance policy will not cover claims for stolen items. However, your homeowners insurance policy will cover such theft. Unfortunately, the insurance deductible is probably at least $250, so this will not help with small losses.
Elizabeth Downs, an insurance agent with New England Insurance Services, Inc., offers this advice:
“Unless the child stole a diamond engagement ring she should let “Back Pocket Mutual” pay this claim. Small nuisance claims show up on the CLUE (Comprehensive Loss Underwriting Exchange) reports. CLUE reports indicate all claims filed by individuals over their lifetime. The more claims you make, the less likely a new insurance company will offer insurance.”
“If you can self-insure (pay it yourself) on the small claims, you are in a much better position when the big claim hits. So, we tell our customers to pay for small losses themselves, and wait to submit claims when the roof is blown off, a pipe bursts in the basement, or a grease fire eats your kitchen.”
In summary: Keep your valuables hidden. If something is stolen, talk with the parents to recover the stolen items. If the parents don’t cooperate, you can call the police or not. If you don’t recover the items, replace them yourself. Don’t make an insurance claim unless the item is very valuable.
Have you had children steal from you, and if so, what have you done?
Tom Copeland – www.tomcopelandblog.com
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